All that matters is that you learn how to dodge properly. If you don't get hit you don't take damage.
Dodging is hilariously shit, or maybe it's the fault of the
atrocious absence of hitboxes. Sometimes you get hit from the side even though your shield is up sometimes you don't. Your attacks don't have that privilege though, a dude is 90 degrees to the left of you and your attack animation sails through his head but for whatever reason you don't hit. Same goes for dodging, you get hir by shit that doesn't hit you.
A hilarious thing about the side dodge is that it doesn't actually work. When you use it reactively you will get hit almost 100% of the time, but if you just use it when the dude is not attacking if you are close enough he will always attack and miss, if you're not close enough he'll hit you. I'm pretty sure I mentioned it before but the ai is making it look like you dodged an attack. Cracks me up every time.
Unfortunately capitalizing on that is not that easy since the lock on just doesn't work. What's nice is that for the most part the NPC's have the same problem, when someone sidesteps and attacks they are usually hitting nothing but air.
Another funny thing is that some, maybe all animals can't figure out that the little parry/attack move is an attack. For example, the vultures will back peddle like assholes until the end of the earth to almost any attack you throw but if you initiate with the parry strike they will stand there like a deer in headlights.
Sometimes when enemies are in large groups they will just stand there and let you have a one on one fight and jump in just to fuck with you every once in a while, other times all of them are piling up on top of you with 3 people doing combos at the same time.
But I get where you guys are coming from, defending this shit. Now that I am reasonably strong I don't notice that shit as much. If you take one bullshit hit you don't really see how bullshit it actually was. But just as an experiment, next time you play go and fight some of the mobs while you're level 2 and you'll probably see what I'm talking about.
In this game gear and levels are way more important than skill.