Spending way too much time doing pretty much anything is bad. This isn't unique to games. People who binge Netflix for 50 hours a week are doing something just as bad as those who play games 50 hours a week. The "modern gaming sucks" cynicism is making you guys focus on games as a "waste of time" ignoring that everyone wastes time with something, and doing it in moderation is a-okay and completely normal. Your arguments are against addiction and sedentary lifestyles, not video games.