Esquilax
Arcane
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Now, now, let's not go all Disney about this. It's a pugilist world and many people choose a life of wandering, adventuring and whatnot as a viable lifestyle. I don't see anyone arguing that Jing is being psychologically traumatised by not getting to play with boys his age. Cao'er may become depressed in the convent, or bullied, lose her taste for life, whatever - you can't really attribute that when she didn't seem to particularly suffer or hate life with Yao. I don't think we should infantilise her and say "hey this is good for you the world is too dangerous little girl".
I'm not saying she hated life with Yao. I'm saying that it's the only life she's ever known. It's easy to pat yourself on the back and say "well, here I am giving her a choice, look at what a great guy I am", when she's never met the Abbess in her life and Jing is the only person that she's ever been friends with because of her travelling lifestyle. Given the choice between heading off to a convent and heading off with Jing, she's obviously going to go off with Jing. And I feel that a lot of the reasons that The Brazilian Slaughter were giving felt like rationalizations; bringing her along for reasons that are beneficial to Jing, not reasons that are beneficial to her. Overall, it's safe to say that Emei is more beneficial to Cao'er than travelling with Jing would be.
But it's fairly clear from the initial description that she never developed any social skills due to Master Yao's lifestyle:
The Doctor
You are not a doctor - not yet - but you are a diamond in the rough. Under any other mentor in the world, you would become a promising healer, but you happen to be apprenticed to the Doctor of Death, an eccentric wanderer who has vowed to kill one person for every person he saves. Despite that, his skills are legendary, and he hopes to turn you into his heir. You wonder if that is such a good thing. Long periods of time spent in isolation with a kook have left you very socially awkward.
The world isn't too dangerous for her. It is the part of the world we chose to reside in that is extremely dangerous. With no school to back us up, the only safe haven for us is the Ashina tribe, and the Luoying Manor might also qualify. Everywhere else we are just an outcast.
At the moment, old Yao is far more of a badass than us, yet he barely made it out in one piece. He was able to protect her up until now because he was (a) a fucking great doctor who always kept his word, and (b) because nobody fucks with the Killing Physician. If Yao wasn't able to protect her at Qingcheng, what chance do we have? Eventually I am confident that Jing will surpass Yao in skills, but right now, we just don't have the ability to look after her.