I don't even dislike her that mutch, sure if it was up to me I would have dumped her at the first possible opportunity or fed her in slices to Yang Xue. But just to get her out of the way and build up a romance between Jing and Yunzi first. Yunzi is way harder to catch than Qilin, and Jing kept her always on far distance, that was even the case before we for some reason started to dump Yunzi with all the adventures and unforseen events that kept us occupied.
No, well, not in that context you aim for. I just am sure that it is either Yunzi or Qilin, I'm not sure to what extend Yunzi would allow other womens next to her, thats up in the air, but Qilin first and then later Yunzi just wont happen. Jing always kept Yunzi on a bigger distance than he did with Cao'er, Qilin or even others he spend way less time with but of course not cause Jing didn't care as he used to say so many times. Yunzi would have been the right one for him, always was from the beginning but that door is closed now sadly, they would have matched perfectly.