Since I know you're all dying for an update on my bugs:
As with 99% of all cases of "performance bugs" turns out it was my own fault! The crashing was happening right after I would quick-save because I had the folder ownership rights fucked up on my AppData and Program Files folders, had to go and change them in the Security tab.
#JustWindowsThings
EDIT: That also simultaenously fixed my mysterious slow-closing inventory menu as well.
I actually feel really smart for having figured it out on my own and fixing it. :D
As for the game well I decided to go with Sword Saint after all. Went the obvious-pick for SS, an Estoc-based Dex-and-Criticals build. So far really enjoying it.
I am loving this game! Pure incline. Everything feels very lethal, especially traps which is refreshing (so much so I actually went and had Linzi "waste" a feat picking Skill Focus: Trickery!).
I love the freedom you have from the very beginning, basically they plop you down and let you visit a shit ton of areas at your leisure, and some areas will be way too tough, but most you can handle if you're smart or you cheese enough. Right now I'm trying to go up a few levels before tackling Sycamore Tree.
BTW here's a dumb thing I did: I made Valerie a Vivisectionist because and now I really regret it. The mutagen is kind of blah and I didn't pay attention to the fact th at their spellcasting is INT-based and she is dumb as a retard, lol. Oh well.
EDIT: My only genuine complaint (and it's an extremely minor one) is that I wish there were some better options for companion AI. Well, ANY options at all.
It is annoying having to trigger Linzi's INSPIRE COMPETENCE every damn time, or having to trigger Amiri's rages constantly, etc.