Both Bane and Bless (as examples) can be better than Haste under many circumstances.It's not only the DMs fault and there's no DM in a video game adaptation. The most sensible build option is to choose 1 spell with concentration (Haste if you have it) and everything else that doesn't require concentration. So even if you get into the very unlikely scenario where another buff would be better than Haste (extremely rare) then you won't have it memorized anyway. Even then, let's say you want to cripple yourself as much as possible and don't choose Haste, there's still only 1 spell with concentration you can cast and they are many. Many more than you'd think. It's not a good system.Haste is hardly the only buff worth casting and if your DM puts you in combat situations where Haste is always the go-to, then they're not doing a good job.
I hardly think that balancing for video games is a priority.