Mangoose
Arcane
No, it's the consequence of choosing to playing a Multiplayer game.: all of that is the consequence of what's essentially forced grouping.
You're forced to play in Multiplayer groups in a Multiplayer game? You're forced to be social in a Multiplayer game?
Wow!!!!
At least in Ultima Online or the like you'd have a reason to not be social. That reason being ganking other players and looting their corpses. Of course then you can say that a WoW PVP server is dumbed down because you can't lose your equipment and gold to someone else.
The only thing that forced you to play Everquest was your own brain telling you to play a Multiplayer Game, while at the same time your brain doesn't like playing with Multiple other people. Or because you're an idiot who thinks EQ or WoW is better than the games I listed.
I bet you hate message boards, too, but the government forces you to go on the Codex.