Once again I make very valid points why Rusty should not be running a forum and everybody turns on me.
It's his forum. He's paying for it. Whether he should be running it (or anything) is an entirely different matter. It also doesn't give you the right to act like an idiot, posting dumb shit everywhere.
You really think he's doing something illegal? Call the police. If you live in Europe you might try to invoke the Right to be Forgotten (although I have no idea how that works exactly nor if you live in an area where this can be applied. It's just an idea).
You could also stop drinking or (if that's too hard for you) stop using a keyboard when drunk to prevent sharing your own sensitive information publicly in the first place. I mean, if "everybody is turning on you" then perhaps that's a "you" problem, not everybody conspiring against you.
People like to shit on Dark Underlord as administrator or RPG Codex as a site, but he has shown a plenty of integrity when it comes to upholding the rules, even if some of them may seem twisted. Why would you go to a forum administrated by rusty - of all people - and put any kind of private/sensitive info there is beyond me.