You have a fundamentally different definition of 'pay to win' then. To me, p2w means either some options are completely unavailable to freebie players and very obviously superior, or the payable options can be obtained for free in theory, but in practice the hurdles placed before that are so abysmal you might as well not even bother. Nosgoff doesn't really have either of these.
I am using the definition, you are misusing the definition to fit your own subjective means. Even as an idiom, PTW does not fit your position as PTW differs greatly from one subjective groups definition to the next, so there is no basic social standard to term such as an accepted form of slang like "cool" or "dope". So all that is achieved is pointless narcissistic means to establish meaning which is never consistent and always confusing. Since language exist to achieve communication, it would seem prudent that one use words that are either correctly established by standards of definition, are at least socially accepted idioms, or are logical derivatives of the core words and context of their use.
Pay to Win first evolved from people "paying" real money to "circumvent" game play. As I said, wining as it pertains to the use means to overcome such obstacles, etc... This definition as I explained is its most basic form of understanding for both the words and the context it is applied. When you have to use "what it means to me", you have lost purpose and might as well say "Potatoes", "Car", "Flower", or "Potty" instead of "Pay to Win" as they would all equally provide the same relevance of purpose when such liberty is taken.
I would hope that you could see the absurdity of the constant Alinksy like adaptions of the phrase and notice that its main purpose in such is to avoid having to deal with the activity actually being what it is properly termed as. When one makes up definitions in a defense as you have, it is no surprise one would find them to be of such fitting use.
So again, as I said, you can do "what it means to me" all you like, you can change out any word you want, but make no mistake that it won't matter what it means to you, it only matters what it actually means and that meaning is not your definition.