Writing in PWotR can be pretty entertaining in many areas, but this one...
"...do you want me to change for you?..."
"...What more can I wish for..."
Let me break this down. Instead of doing what she thinks is right, dealing with the consequences, believing that her friends would do good by her in such moments, thus shaping her character, she asks for laying the responsibility for her actions on someone else. Loosing any possible hold on her character in the first place. After that, the player is reputedly in their good nature for leting themselves slip to such a trap. Wow.
I think yet again that some of the writers of PWotR should tremendously ease on empowering all newly found out genders to bravery by geting on anyone's nerves the every odd day, and instead return to the elementary school to learn what a character values are, and how a healthy relationship is supposed to work.