WouldBeCreator
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DorrieB said:The first example still stands. If your wife or girlfriend were to suffer amnesia, and her personality changed as a result, would you still be in love with the same woman? Or would you consider that your love was dead, and this new woman was a complete stranger? It's not an easy one to answer, but it happens to be exactly Deionarra's situation. So what do you think?
Well, there is of course the question whether her personality would change. It's unclear how much is hardwired by that point and how much is memory. But if my wife got Phineas Gage'd (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Phineas_Gage) and turned into a cruel person, then it would be a harder call. The tragedy, of course, would be that I would be bound by the commitment to my love for her even if it was no longer the one I loved. Leviticus 26 -- I'm in a Bible-quoting mood from the other thread with HumanShield -- is about as perfect an expression of this commitment as I can think of off the top of my head. Commitments, real commitments, aren't contingent on the other person keeping their word. So I think you'd be obliged to go on loving her.
Which, would, of course, be a tragedy akin to Dak'kon's or Morte's, I think.