Actually I don't mind the graphics that much. The clunky UI though is hard to get through.
Not to mention I personally don't like any kind of isometric style. Then again I wouldn't say no to an HD port either.
My main problem though had to be combat.
And what games you played in videogames? Specifically, wich RPGs? Because the vast majority of RPGs that were successful in the SNES and Playstation generations were turn-based. Games similar to Final Fantasy's and Dragon Quest's's. Then it gets a little strange that you have grown up being exposed to games like that and still consider Arcanum/Fallout unbearable. Sure, there are certain fundamental differences, such as the fact that in Western RPGs you need to position your character in combat, something that is not necessary in many RPGs made in Japan. But even there, there are games like Tactics Ogre or Super Robot Wars that have a simplified version of the combat system of Fallout, isomentric-kinda view and a combat sistem that needs positioning in turns.
So ... What did you play, to have any reference?