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Some potential red flags, for the uninitiated:
- fits of rage
- attention-seeking, yet reclusive
- pathological lying
- childish regression when vulnerable
- bullying and character assassination
- sycophantic where useful
- you never really "know" them even if you're friends
The fact that he heavily abstracted and genericized the actual signs of NPD is frankly more damning to him than Chris, almost as though the real ones struck too close to home.
Here's the actual signs from the Mayo Clinic:
Signs and symptoms of narcissistic personality disorder and the severity of symptoms vary. People with the disorder can:
At the same time, people with narcissistic personality disorder have trouble handling anything they perceive as criticism, and they can:
- Have an exaggerated sense of self-importance
- Have a sense of entitlement and require constant, excessive admiration
- Expect to be recognized as superior even without achievements that warrant it
- Exaggerate achievements and talents
- Be preoccupied with fantasies about success, power, brilliance, beauty or the perfect mate
- Believe they are superior and can only associate with equally special people
- Monopolize conversations and belittle or look down on people they perceive as inferior
- Expect special favors and unquestioning compliance with their expectations
- Take advantage of others to get what they want
- Have an inability or unwillingness to recognize the needs and feelings of others
- Be envious of others and believe others envy them
- Behave in an arrogant or haughty manner, coming across as conceited, boastful and pretentious
- Insist on having the best of everything — for instance, the best car or office
- Become impatient or angry when they don't receive special treatment
- Have significant interpersonal problems and easily feel slighted
- React with rage or contempt and try to belittle the other person to make themselves appear superior
- Have difficulty regulating emotions and behavior
- Experience major problems dealing with stress and adapting to change
- Feel depressed and moody because they fall short of perfection
- Have secret feelings of insecurity, shame, vulnerability and humiliation
Bolded ones imo MCA has shown to be the exact opposite of, he has been self-effacing to a fault.