Walks with the Snails
Erudite
I don't know, some of those 10 "enlarge your penis" spams I get every day don't sound that healthy.
Some men in weight training also do get cosmetic implants for things their bodies just weren't designed to have, like thick calves. Pretty much as dopey as breast implants, but they're supposedly taking off.
I think in part, some things with the "perfect man" are pretty unattainable, so why bother. Muscles can be worked with, but if you're not tall and don't have a chiseled face, there isn't that much to be done about it. And men generally don't give too much of a damn about their appearance. Some will spend some time every day on it, others (like me) don't worry too much beyond basic hygiene. You can say that's because women are more forgiving, but I think it was Bill Maher who said men just take what's there. We weren't the ones who asked for Gidget or Kate Moss, that's just what was peddled to women by the fashionistas, and we didn't really say much about it one way or the other. I can't say I've met many guys who actively hunt down and only consider skinny girls, though. I'd be a bit worried with a guy who did have a certain fixation on one type of woman. I think most guys have pretty realistic expectations when it comes to women anyway, sure I like big boobies, full lips, and a nice set of hips, but I don't run off with a checklist and say any woman who doesn't meet all the criteria is too hideous to get the time of day. And I'm not really an ugly or desperate guy, either.
Just my personal opinion, I think some of it might just be part of the traditional male-female dynamic. It's easier (at least once you get the guts) to approach those you might want to go out with than to try and look nice to get others to take an interest in you. Some cosmetically challenged women out there might be surprised at who might show some interest in them if they were a little more aggressive. Sure, they'd get shot down a few times, but that's what we've always dealt with and the human race is still here. And I know the few times I've been approached I found the whole thing quite flattering and was willing to give it a try most of the time, even when I wouldn't have necessarily thought to approach the woman in question. It's kind of strange to me that so many women still seem to hew traditional notions when it comes to dating while hating all the rest of the old social notions that tell them where their place is.
Some men in weight training also do get cosmetic implants for things their bodies just weren't designed to have, like thick calves. Pretty much as dopey as breast implants, but they're supposedly taking off.
I think in part, some things with the "perfect man" are pretty unattainable, so why bother. Muscles can be worked with, but if you're not tall and don't have a chiseled face, there isn't that much to be done about it. And men generally don't give too much of a damn about their appearance. Some will spend some time every day on it, others (like me) don't worry too much beyond basic hygiene. You can say that's because women are more forgiving, but I think it was Bill Maher who said men just take what's there. We weren't the ones who asked for Gidget or Kate Moss, that's just what was peddled to women by the fashionistas, and we didn't really say much about it one way or the other. I can't say I've met many guys who actively hunt down and only consider skinny girls, though. I'd be a bit worried with a guy who did have a certain fixation on one type of woman. I think most guys have pretty realistic expectations when it comes to women anyway, sure I like big boobies, full lips, and a nice set of hips, but I don't run off with a checklist and say any woman who doesn't meet all the criteria is too hideous to get the time of day. And I'm not really an ugly or desperate guy, either.
Just my personal opinion, I think some of it might just be part of the traditional male-female dynamic. It's easier (at least once you get the guts) to approach those you might want to go out with than to try and look nice to get others to take an interest in you. Some cosmetically challenged women out there might be surprised at who might show some interest in them if they were a little more aggressive. Sure, they'd get shot down a few times, but that's what we've always dealt with and the human race is still here. And I know the few times I've been approached I found the whole thing quite flattering and was willing to give it a try most of the time, even when I wouldn't have necessarily thought to approach the woman in question. It's kind of strange to me that so many women still seem to hew traditional notions when it comes to dating while hating all the rest of the old social notions that tell them where their place is.