MF said:
Compassion and Empathy are two completely different concepts. Freedictionary is edited by high school kids. Try Merriam-Webster.
http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/empathy
versus
http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/compassion
If you don't understand the difference, it doesn't mean there isn't one. Also, I'm flattered you would think that I am a native speaker, as I was born and raised near Amsterdam, The Netherlands, where I still live.
The totally, and I do mean totally unwarranted arrogance with which you just spat out that condescending bullshit of yours makes me feel bad for you.
Eh.. so, when a source of information doesn't support our opinions then it's something "edited by high-school kids".
So codex-like..
Ok, lets use your dictionary, and lest trash a bit more of my time discussing worthless things with worthless people whose lives revolve around arguing over the internet about the difference between the "concepts of empathy and compassion".
*Compassion:
sympathetic consciousness of others' distress together with a desire to alleviate it
synonyms: see pity
*Pity:
1 a: sympathetic sorrow for one suffering, distressed, or unhappy b: capacity to feel pity
2: something to be regretted <it>
synonyms: pity, compassion, commiseration, condolence, sympathy
*Empathy:
1: the imaginative projection of a subjective state into an object so that the object appears to be infused with it
2: the action of understanding, being aware of, being sensitive to, and vicariously experiencing the feelings, thoughts, and experience of another of either the past or present without having the feelings, thoughts, and experience fully communicated in an objectively explicit manner; also :
the capacity for this
Lets analyze; it's about being able to understand somebody else's feelings. You can't feel sorrow for one suffering if you don't have empathy - so empathy and compassion go hand in hand. I can say.. "I have empathy for him" or "I feel compassion for him", is there any substantial difference? I don't think so. Yes, empathy is broader since compassion seems to be linked more with understanding somebody else's
sorrow and distress. Empathy means understanding
feelings of others is general.
Why would you be flattered if somebody who "doesn't know the difference between empathy and compassion (which makes him an idiot)" ,
, says your english is good? It might as well be that your english sucks very much. :/
And regarding your last paragraph.. you don't have to feel bad for me - you don't have to even feel any empathy or compassion for me. Just please, try to not use so many
big words, they sound silly when used by
little people.