"Party-based" even though the party control works more like KOTOR than BG (come to think of it, it's really more like a BG/KOTOR mixture).
DA:O party control works very similar to IE, actually. You can marquee select, double-click to "snap" to units (via unit or portrait), but you also have the power of 3d (rotation and zoom). Calling it a KotOR/BG mix is idiotic, I'm afraid.
"Top-down" even though the isometric view was an abomination, almost unusable in many maps (see Circle Tower), made NWN2's camera feel easy to control, and was such an integral part of the experience that it was omitted entirely from the console version.
User error, lack of understanding, RTFM etc...
The strategy cam (iso-view) was very serviceable in DA:O, and is what facilitated IE-like tactics. If it was removed from the console version (was it lol?), then that was probably done due to console limitations (input, interface etc.).
"Large selection of abilities" even though most of them were useless,
I can't call DA:O a spiritual successor to BG2 in this respect: BG2 had infinitely more deadweight.
and you ended up spamming the same 2 or 3 throughout the game.
If you were unimaginative and played on easy, yeah...
"Maybe what some of us liked about BG2 was that there was so much variety in spells and that many of them were useful in different situations,
Many of the spells and abilities in BG2 are utterly useless AD&D rulebook filler with no practical utility.
or that there were more than 3 classes, or that there was a HUGE amount of variety in enemy abilities, immunities and strategies required to deal with them, that the side quest content wasn't picking up MMO-style quests from a questboard, that the whole mechanics of the game didn't reek of MMO cooldowns and "aggro" and all this crap,
Origins has 3 base classes with 18 specializations. Your other "points" are silly exaggerations too, perhaps a side-effect of nostalgia goggles and lack of sunshine and fresh air?
that you could make selections of which characters you were controlling and move them in groups, rather than switching back and forth between one and the other.
Did you play the console version, lol? Cuz ah, you can do that in DA:O PC version..
You sound really ignorant about DA:O, perhaps it's time you stopped posting about it?