I get what you're saying, but while BG2 may have had people playing it for the cinematic experience and the romances, I highly doubt this way the majority of the fanbase, considering getting through some of the encounters did require you to be quite familiar with D&D intricacies (and as was pointed out earlier in the thread, reading strategies on GameFAQ doesn't count). Shrug, maybe I'm wrong though.
Not in terms of action, in terms of the cinematic approach. the EPIC!!!!ness, and the way party control actually handles. And really, look at the points Knowles himself mentions. "Party-based" even though the party control works more like KOTOR than BG (come to think of it, it's really more like a BG/KOTOR mixture). "Top-down" even though the isometric view was an abomination, almost unusable in many maps (see Circle Tower), made NWN2's camera feel easy to control, and was such an integral part of the experience that it was omitted entirely from the console version. "Large selection of abilities" even though most of them were useless, and you ended up spamming the same 2 or 3 throughout the game. "And… a Silent Protagonist", despite the fact EVERYTHING else was voiced (at no small cost, I'm sure). Maybe what some of us liked about BG2 was that there was so much variety in spells and that many of them were useful in different situations, or that there were more than 3 classes, or that there was a HUGE amount of variety in enemy abilities, immunities and strategies required to deal with them, that the side quest content wasn't picking up MMO-style quests from a questboard, that the whole mechanics of the game didn't reek of MMO cooldowns and "aggro" and all this crap, that you could make selections of which characters you were controlling and move them in groups, rather than switching back and forth between one and the other.
When I played DAO I felt like someone took the content and the way the game controlled from ME or KOTOR and slapped that on a concept someone wrote for a new BG. And as a result it felt like a lesser game than either of the others.