I haven't had a female ruler for some time now, but now I can really appreciate the "greatness" of the seduction mechanic. Every 2 weeks, I get a love letter or some other seduction attempt from the gluttonous, drunkard, paranoid master seducer Count of Malta, who already has three lovers. Do you think he's going to change his target after being spurned? Of course not. There is nothing you can do about it. You can't turn him down permanently, you can't tell his wife, you can't arrest him without tyranny. According to the opinion mechanic, he hates me and I hate him (-79 and -100, respectively), but there is literally no connection between this focus and previously existing game mechanics, because that would make too much sense.
Does the new patch/DLC fix this stuff? If so, I'll take back everything I said about it. If not, well, I hope they're happy with their DLCs. I guess they're too busy adding China. You know it's coming some day. Perhaps sometime around 2018-2020 they'll release CK3 with only a map of Europe and only Catholic feudal lords being playable, and the circus will start all over again.
Edit: I googled "Crusader Kings 2 seduction" just for fun, and the first link I clicked was a thread on the official forum, where the first response to a complaint was, "Welcome to the Middle Ages". I wish I could pop out of that guy's screen and give him a post-natal abortion. How can anyone be so retarded to think that WoL seduction is literally an accurate representation of the medieval court?