I like how many of the criticisms ITT boil down to:
1) This game only entertained me for 60+ hours!
2) After 60+ hours in a week, the game became repetitive!
The game isn't a job, you can take a break, play something else, do something else. If you actually dislike it, you could just ditch it - most people seem to have gotten their money's worth in terms of entertainment value by the time they burn out.
I've been blown away by how many things there are to discover and enjoying the chill part of just rolling around on the horse. But then, I'm playing it more like I'd approach Dragon's Dogma than a Souls game.
Other than that, I agree that some of the asset reuse is dumb. Like the Walking Mausoleum would've been better as either being infinite or having a set number of charges equal to however many duplications they wanted you to have in a playthrough. Sure, there's some value in finding new ones, but when you already know the mechanic, it's just a matter of rote going through the motions after the first time.
I think my feelings are also a bit different as I've only made it as far as the Altus Plateau because I keep switching characters due to my weird altaholic thing. So far, I've played through reasonably significant portions of the game as strength, strength-faith, pure intelligence, dexterity-intelligence, strength-dexterity. Doing that with different weapons has been interesting since I can see how different damage types, poise values, stagger damage values, etc. can change the difficulties of different enemies and situations which has been interesting and rewarding.
The other thing that's become apparent is that the game rewards you for approaching it on its own terms which aren't 1:1 with Souls mechanics, although there is a lot of overlap. I would suggest that it's like how people described Sekiro where you had to approach it as its own thing and not just take a Souls approach to it. I can only suggest/assume this as I really hated Sekiro and never got gud at it, I bounced off of it pretty hard in the early game and was pretty awful at the game.
I guess ultimately I feel both that I need to stop spending so much time on this game since I hit it at least as hard as people who have finished it or are close to finishing it, but also that having had as much enjoyment as I have out of it, that I've already gotten my money's worth even if I uninstalled the game today.