I admit that I finally finished DA:O over the holidays. Though only thanks to extensive modding. You can see that it had some potential, that was then wasted thanks to the shitty engine - does it use tweaked Aurora?, shitty-to-mediocre writing that never made me chuckle or really impress me, awful animation and texturing - though modders have somewhat fixed that, and - above all - crap mechanics that were initially hidden from the player (seriously, I had to get a mod that would show me the damage-formulas for the different spells and abilities) coupled with ridiculously slim gallery of monsters employed in mostly utterly retarded encounters. I mostly just slugged it through, just to say that I've finally done it. Neither the story, nor the loot (which was a clusterfuck as well), nor the combat worked as a carrot to keep me playing.
I cannot imagine what sort of people could play it through several times.
Anyway, Gaider can eat cocks. He dugs his grave, he gets to lie in it. No point in complaining.