Well I can see where you're coming from.mastroego I didn't buy the SE. Mainly becuase I couldn't bring myself to load all the mods again. I just kept the version I had and I can't even tell you from memory which combat overhaul I've got. It doesn't appear in the MCM menu but it overhauled the combat and the feats.
I think there's a game in here somewhere. I'm going down the stealth > vampire route. I'm aware of Requiem, but I don't think I'm gonna go down the mod route again.
Modding can be exhausting.
I shared my "minimalistic" SE Requiem list some pages ago, to possibly help someone who felt like that.
It'll still require some work to do to get it going, but if you want to go that route, consider that the hard and long part (checkin' up individual mods and seeing what goes with what and where) it's done already...