Twinfalls said:
Twins: First off, thanks for the articulate comments about porn.
But then what the right hand gives, the left hand takes away. You have this tendency to ruin otherwise excellent posts with over the top comments. Like this one:
It's exactly that Christian Church dogma - that sex should not be enjoyed, that self-pleasure is WICKED - that is as deeply objectionable as pornography itself.
This is unequivocally inaccurate. It is not Christian church dogma that sex should not be enjoyed--or that is wicked. It is nowhere taught in sacred Scripture. It is nowhere taught in any church I'm aware of (I will grant that there have been periods in Roman Catholic history where this was true, however). Nor did my post say that.
My point was that the
entire emphasis of porn sex is on getting off, i.e., self-pleasure. But the emphasis of sex as God designed it is on love, bringing pleasure to the other, within marriage. Emphasis. Focus. In no way does this mean, nor did I mean, that sex is not intended to bring self-pleasure. Of course it does.
It is true that sex outside of marriage is sinful. Is that what you were referring to?
Then there is this quote:
You have simply swallowed and are now regurgitating a clever bit of mind-control propaganda. That's the Catholic Church's way - fear, guilt, shame
Right. FTR, I am not Catholic. What is with the ridiculous generalizations? Do you really think that every Christian is a mindless drone that simply accepts everything taught without mentally processing it? If you do, you are sadly mistaken.
And enough with the stupid comment about the Church just being a mind-control machine. I think it is closer to the truth to say that you, and many people today, have a serious problem with authority. I think you would have a problem with any authority telling you that something you want to do is wrong. All of it would be mind control progaganda. I find that humerous.
The Church, when it is faithful, simply proclaims what God has said. Because he is Creator, he has an insight into what will ultimately hurt and harm us. He calls that sin. And he tries to keep us from such harm by commandments--in the same way that guard rails attempt to prevent people from driving off the road to their doom. He sees what much of our vaunted freedom will bring us in the end. And he wants to prevent it. Because he loves us. Not because he is a cosmic kill joy.