He isn't driven by spite as much by regret and disappointment with his relative Galfrey driving the Crusades into the ground with her vanity*
I don't really agree with that. Yeah, Daeran often mentions that the crusaders suck ass. But the key issues of his spite towards Mendev are threefold:
First that his mother was true to Iomedae's ideals, and ended up sacrificing herself to save others. That's where Daeran goes from a noble brat to someone who is disillusioned with the faith. That the crusaders suck only adds to that, but that's the initial trigger for his nihilism. Had Daeran not lost his mother, he'd still have his moral compass. His reaction towards Mendev's incompetence and Galfrey's weakness would be one of despair (we are the good guys, and we are losing! the world is doomed!), rather than spiteful disdain.
Second, his condition with the Other means he's constantly fearful of the inquisition and anyone who can find out his secret. He knows he'll be killed for the pact he signed as a ~12 yo on the brink of death. And the church most likely to carry out his punishment is that of Iomedae.
Third, that feeds back into one of the first dialogues you have with him, in the Defender's Hearth. Daeran says he's from old Mendev nobility, so he's aware that Mendev used to have a history of it's own. Over time, Daeran's seen how Mendev's heroes disappeared in favor of the Crusade's. Mendev's culture is in a way being colonized by this continent-wide multi-faith effort to fight the demons.
When I played Trickster I perceived Daeran as in a trifecta with Joran Vhane and Nurah. They were the key supporting characters for why the Trickster PC's motivation comes about. That is, it's not just the demons but also Mendev and the Crusades which deserve a comeuppance. The Crusaders don't just suck because they are weak. If the PC thinks that they'll come to their rescue as an Angel. Rather, the Crusaders are hypocrites, fools, and morally arrogant. It really fit how Daeran was the companion that wholeheartedly sided against Iomedae at the end of the day. Everyone else is supportive and doesn't want me to go insane. But as far as Daeran is concerned, Trickster is the answer to his non denominational prayers.
Yes.
For the Lantern King its no different from taking ants on one part of your yard and putting them in another part. For Daeran its probably roughly the same.
so your argument that someone isn't evil is that he treats people like ants...?
manatee are you a ceo of a large corporation if so i could really use a bullshit job rn
You gotta understand that the Lantern King is fey and a god. Daeran is, well, for the lack of a better word human. The Lantern King's motives cannot be understood as anything approaching humanity. He's an otherwordly being who, by the way, is probably granting spells to chaotic good and chaotic evil people even as he fucks up your kingdom. Whereas Daeran is a broken person who chooses to disregard human life and spread misery for it's own sake.