Hello!
I finally played Dark Souls 2. I only played Dark Souls and then Demon's Souls, liking them both equally, but finding DS to have more coherent lore and a stronger atmosphere, though DeS has its own highlights. Of DS2 I read a lot of things and took from that that it is a bad game, so I played it.
At first I thought it was difficult as I kept getting killed by Heide Knights. This, it turns out, was just me being rusty since it has been six, seven years since my last Souls game. After a few hours I got back into the rhythm. Now, I played Dark Souls using only that Asylum Hammer (as it was the weapon I liked the most) and DeS only using a Zweihander. I never carried a shield because I just didn't find them that good and thought dodging was easier. Anyway-
I have now beaten Nashandra and am a bit tired as DS2 was quite long and dragged on near the end. I haven't touched the DLC and might save it for later. I also spent a long time in the dueling arena to get the red phantom glow (need 50 more wins than losses to get it - PVP was very, very active, with no wait time between duels.)
So! I tried NOT to fall into my usual ways and tried to make a mage. So I went hexer, spammed orbs, and eventually got really bored of it and respec'd to be just a guy with a spear. I still only ever two-handed it and only had two spells: Greater Magic Barrier and Dark Weapon. Despite my best attempts, I ended up being a "melee dude with no shield and 2-handing a weapon" again, but I had a lot of fun! The spears in this game were really good and I never used spears in DS or DeS so it was a whole new world. Spears are super fast and lethal, but it can be hard to hit with them. My character eventually had 30 INT/FAI for Dark scaling and used a Dark Silverblack Spear to get lots of duel and invasion wins. Armor was just the Hexer set but it didn't really to make a difference so I guess you can wear whatever you want in this game. I just wanted my weight to be really low for the further rolls.
Anyway, I expected the game to be terrible. What I found is that I found the mechanics really good. Hear me out! Yes, the animations/sound do not feel as 'weighty' as in the earlier two games. But something about it feels snappy and responsive. PVP in particular was, by a mile, my favorite in this one: very active, very fair and a lot of fun. I expected to face a lot of 'cheese' builds in the arena. But nope, every fight was different! That was tons of fun. I faced, among others, naked dudes with caestus, rapier dudes, sword and board dudes, greatsword dudes, lots and lots of mages and all kinds of in-between. My build ended up being very, very strong so I dealt with all of them just fine because the spear I liked had a great rolling attack that can catch people when they do not expect it. So, PVP felt much, much better!
Now, the lore is... well. And the areas are- I don't know if they are short but they feel awfully linear. And there are bonfires literally everywhere. I didn't mind the teleporting so much (as the game was very long and large, so without it would be quite harsh) - I was told the bossfights would be mainly "guy with sword" but honestly, I found the varied. I only didn't care for the chariot. No boss gave me trouble as the game was quite easy to me.
So to sum it up: the PVP was really good in this one, but the areas aren't a lot of fun to traverse and drag on. The weapons are cool and have varied movesets. The game is quite a bit too easy - but to be fair, that might be because I didn't die much. The less you die, the stronger you get because you don't lose the souls if you can consistently keep them safe. Certainly DS is a more seminal game; this is just- well, not more of the same; the world is... messy and the lore doesn't really work too well. However, it is more of the same gameplay and I liked every single change introduced. In fact I thought the mechanics of DS2 were the best part! They made for excellent PVP.
Since I am rambling so much, here are the weapons I tried:
Mace (seemed OP for PVE but boring moveset), Club (just slightly different mace...), Silverblack Spear (excellent all around with Dark scaling Hexer build like mine). I also read the Crypt Greatsword thing was supposed to be good and I used it for a while, feeling like Guts junior. In the end I thought it was too slow for my purposes. I used spells for PvE (well, only Dark Fog and Dark Orb) and eventually gave up on that, enjoying melee combat a lot more.
So in summary, I thought Dark Souls 2 was much, much better than expected. Not a 'worthy successor' - more like a sidegrade, a step to the side. But as I liked Souls gameplay, this was an excellent game to me. I give it five bananas out of nine potato. Oh, and it ran beautifully on all max, even on an older PC. I found that really noteworthy. It also doesn't look half-bad.
Oh, what weapon should I use for Dark Souls 3? I /always/ end up just 2-handing something for the rest of the game, but I try to make it a different weapon each game: DeS was a greatsword, DS a great hammer and DS2 a spear. Any ideas what kind of weapon I might enjoy in DS3 that isn't one of the types I already played a lot with?
P.S. I have no idea if Dark Souls 2 was easier or harder than DS1 / DeS. It felt really easy to me - but that might be because spears are great, or because I have my experience from DS and DeS which pretty much translates directly.