Well I think it's ok that the host has some options in trolling the invader. Once in the DLC I got invaded at the worst possible moment, so I fucking legged it to the pillar that raises you up to the second bonfire in the city, dodge rolling through the monsters on the way, attacked the lift contraption while jumping on to it, so that it raised me to higher ground. I got the bonfire, but the hilarious thing was that there was absolutely no way he could get to me. He got to the high ground, and I would taunt him for about 5 minutes taking his arrows with my shield, pretending that I would do a mistake. I then went inside where he couldn't shoot me and went to prepare a tea. A short time after I came back, he was still there, an shortly after a big blue bro came to my aid, he killed him and that was the end of that invasion
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I feel absolutely no remorse, because among all the invaders I've gotten, there is just a handful that I've gotten that don't act like assholes. Yesterday I got invaded about 30 times while trying to do some PvE, and a single one actually engaged me in a true 1v1 duel, where he didn't try to hide behind monsters. I lost, but I thought it was completely ok. The rest all tried to hide behind monsters, hide in the environment and then strike you with a one-shot spell/katana when you are busy with figthing monsters, because you lose the patience to look for the guy. All of them use some combination of katana and one-shot spell too, and some weird short sword that is about 50 cm long with a range of about 2 meters. It might be the puzzle sword, but I really doubt it, since it wasn't the R2 attack animation I saw. I also love, how I in a mid roll away from the enemy, teleport one meter back to the enemy into the sword that all of the sudden is backstabbing me, and then I die. Aren't you supposed to have some invisibility frames mid roll? Even though I'm a member of the little blue bro covenant, the only one not requiring a ring to be worn, I fight the absolutely vast majority of the fights alone, either because there is nobody playing big blue bro, or because the covenant mechanic is broken.
Through getting a lot of training, I've actual become quite decent in PvP, I've learned to use slow PvE weapons to methodically dodge and bait mistakes of invading people who always have Pvp gear, striking when they do a mistake, instead of spamming R1/run attack, like 99% of the invaders do. Even though I probably win less than 50% of the fights, I'd still say I'm better than the majority of my invaders. And I must say that it's incredibly satisfying to beat an invader that tried to ambush you while fighting a monster, beating him while dodge rolling through the attacks of the pursuing monster, being completely under geared for the situation while he is over geared. It fills you with no small amount of pride, and you feel almost like David beating the giant.
My problem is with the frequency however, I think there should be at least a 30 minutes cooldown, or maybe an hour, between each invasions, so that you can't get invaded so fucking often as I got yesterday. I noticed that I got invaded by the same people several times too, which was pretty weird and makes me feel like I'm the only one on the receiving end of invasions. The invaders should be invaded much much more often than me.