ProphetSword
Arcane
Server lists are needless due to the existence of nwnlist.com.
This is not true. The easiest way for players to find a server is through the built-in server lists. I saw a lot of player drop-off after the server lists went down. Sure, some people were able to still find us, but a lot of others didn't know how.
Automatic download... well, I think that manual download and unpacking hak files into hak folder (and .tlk into tlk folder, etc.) is within anyone's skill set, so it's just another bullshitty thing to put on a changelog to show that "something" is being done - and this is basically beamdog in a nutshell.
Actually, this would be another big deal. I can't name the number of players I've had to walk through with instructions on how to find, download and correctly install CEP just so they could log into my server. Rinse and repeat every time a new version of CEP was released in those days.
It can be done, sure, but it's neither automatically intuitive or easy for a large group of casual players.
I am/was in contact with people modding the game and I acknowledge that EE improved the toolset somewhat, which at the moment is basicaly only selling point.
It's also the reason that people should buy it. NWN OC is shit. Nobody is going to buy NWN:EE for the OC (at least I hope not). But much better mods and PWs being on the horizon is a fantastic reason to shell out money.