So she did porn at some point, omg how dare she demand respect and actually get it
Isn't the point that if you're okay with doing porn you are probably not a prude that will get offended by dirty private messages? If I posted images of my private parts all over these forums then you would think it was strange if I was horrified if someone sent me a sexual pm? Would it not seem like I had some ulterior motive if I pretended to be and went public with it? MCA's only crime is being a fattie and being cringe at hitting on women. That is one of the worst crimes and much worse than murder but not legally.
Doing porn doesn't suddenly make you open to all kinds of offers. You are still a person with boundaries, friends, colleagues, people you let in your inner circle and those you leave out. That pm wasn't shitty just because it was sexual. It was shitty because it obviously breached a boundary between her and Chris and apparently, they didn't have the kind of relationship or prior intimacy to just simply permit that kind of message. Chris wouldn't even be apologizing if it were any other way.
The whole thing is about building and maintaining trust and when you receive an unsolicited message like that that simply doesn't respect your boundaries, it breaks that trust.
OH BUT SHE DID PORN SO WHATEVER AMIRITE