Sure I'm ad homming it up, but here we have a girl who starves herself to near-death in an attempt to achieve some warped body type trying to say that the objectification of women isn't harmful. It's like a lung cancer patient trying to say that cigarettes are just fine while coughing up one of those diseased lungs.
You are projecting.
I am a extremely superficial fashionista. I had become pretty good at professional make up artist techniques before starting highschool, and a great deal of my life is studying fashion and beautiful, glamorous girls so I can learn what it is about their looks, personality, characteristics, etc, that makes them so awesome so I can reproduce it on myself by means of butchering my own personality and both starving and working the fuck out of my body. I never denied that. Actually, I -embrace- it as my identity. I am utterly happy being so.
You are assuming this issue is related to gender politics, though, while providing no evidence about it. From the exact same known facts you could argue I objetified myself because I enjoy being an object, as long as such object is target of enough male desire and female envy. Which is, actually, much closer to the truth.
Then, not only girls go that way. While less in number there are men who embrace such a lifestyle too. Are they the result of guys objectifying girls too?
Maybe you would find easier to understand shit if you don't start from the assumption men are evil and we are all poor victims of male oppression. *shrug*
In any case you seem to be pretty blinded by your ideals and beliefs, which do nothing but remind me why I prefer to have no ideals at all outside of beauty and popularity. Thank you for that, lately I had been forgetting it myself.