Name the CRPGs where you can't choose your gender or between pregenerated characters of both genders. Obitus and Diablo clones? Twitcher? Bloodnet?
Let's see:
The Gothic (Risen too) series
Deus Ex
Fable
Dark Messiah
Bastion (tough it's the other way round in Transistor so...)
Consortium (your character may well be female, it's just that you are controlling Bishop 6 anyway)
Alpha Protocol
System Shock 2 (System Shock and Bioshock games too, they're not RPGs though)
Styx: Master of Shadows and Of Orcs and Men
Shadow of Mordor
Some of these might not necessarily be regarded as 'real' RPGs but the trend is pretty clear.
Now what are some games where you *have to* play as a female?
The aforementioned Transistor is the only cRPG that comes to my mind