I don't see how you can presumably defend Pillars or BG3 and criticize DAO when those two games have the majority of the flaws you listed even worse than Origins.
I struggle to think which flaws are worse in BG3 than on DAO outside of VA
Old good new bad even if old isn't actually that old, codex 2023/2024
-cooldown and mana combat system with overabundance of healing, decline
Combat's very simplified with an abundance of healing and recovery abilities.
-wasting money on full VA, still looks awkward as fuck
I'm pretty sure BG3 has full VA.
-gays
BG3's got way more gay characters and themes in it than Origins. It's even gayer than Inquisition.
-boring companions
Origins companions were serviceable while BG3's might be as bad as Inquisition's. Shadowheart has a better VA and design than Sera but she's almost as annoying.
-bad encounter design
I've not seen enough of BG3 to know this by heart but it looks like it has the same setup where you walk into rooms and enemies spawn.
-cliche bioware story formula
Cliche Larian story formula that's as bad as any of Bioware's later games.
-uninspired world(darkspawn are literally le orcs)
FR is an uninspired as they come at least in the way Larian portrayed it.
-rtwp<tb, sadly it is rtwp
If it's done right it beats turnbased and I'm not ashamed to say it. It could've been improved though.