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I'd like to remind everyone that Sten's questline in the first game revolved around him being cast off (or going into exile) because he lost his sword.You seem to think the Qunari are utilitarians instead of religious fanatics.
Not a magical sword, or a unique sword, or a sword made of expensive materials, or anything like that. Just an ordinary sword that happened to be assigned to him when he was assigned to the Qunari military. His "soul", according to the Qun, is that particular sword, and without it he is a failure. A perfectly utilitarian (or even just any normal) society would tell Sten "ffs, we'll give you a different sword, we're not in any shortage of iron, drama queen". Instead, his code of honor obligated him to remove himself from the society entirely, until he can find his sword again.
I'd like to also remind everyone that the Qunary questline in the second game revolved around their their military leader and his elite entourage spending an indefinite amount of time confined to a section of some random shithole city, far away from their homeland, because someone stole the original tome of the founder of the Qun, and they were honor-bound to seek it at all costs. They threw their entire military at this endeavor. A perfectly utilitarian society would say "who cares about the dusty old tome, we have millions of copies".