I can understand games not having crosshair at first but it should appear with mastery of a skill.
This game is partially a simulator. For me something like that would ruin it but then i never tried using a controller for this game (and could never do so).
BTW, this argument also applies to people trying to play this as if it was Elden Scrolls. Kindcome Come is not really "open world", not in the same sense. You can roam around and do what you want but there are definitive limits. When you start, Henry is a village boy with zero experience in almost anything. Being unable to fight off bandits or being unable to shoot rabbits after picking up an hunting quest is how the game is intended to be, because it's trying to simulate the difficulties someone like Henry would have in that situaition. That even becomes more obvious once you start to meet all the other refugees, including your own friends, all of which also struggle to find a place outside. Henry is immensely privilege compared to everybody else from Skalitz.