I dunno who she is. Who exactly do you think she is?
First, she is a noble knight, with all the assumptions of what is 'fair' and 'appropriate', and what isn't that it entails. We've got a glimpse of it during the duel, both with Arlin and with us.
I do know who exactly she thinks we are, though.
An uppity mage who is also a good fencing partner and is a better date than her fiance could ever hope to be.
Did you miss that she seemed to be enjoying the date... until it was interrupted, that is?
shit over her fighting skill without trying
That is called 'being a worthy opponent'. Unlike Nostrils, she seems to appreciate those.
demanded she give us a tour that she didn't want to give
She is a free woman. She can do whatever she wants. This was the whole point we wanted to get across.
Have we done anything to her or her friends that she would rate decent behaviour yet? Anything at all?
Like... I don't know, a resurrection? That would be pretty decent, no?
We expect her to not want this disreputable little shit to stand trial for all the trouble that he caused in a few short days? Why not? Why would she have any sympathy for our dilemma?
Because she would owe us her life? That she knows for certain we didn't take. We didn't kill her. In fact, she is not our responsibility at all.
Well, she kind of is, because we would be (wrongly) accused of kidnapping/murder/whatnot if we dumped her back in the river instead of solving the problem, but there is no real moral obligation for us to do anything for her, and if we still do... We know she is big on honor and other knight values.
Then again, I remember you advocating that Rin will certainly betray us the first chance she gets, so...
