Another terrible day :/ I am gonna have to give up on my esper control deck. It used to be great but now it loses too much. I made a Wilderness Reclamation net deck but that loses too much as well. If I get to turn 6 ish I can nuke them for 500000 damage but all these Questing Beast decks own me long before that point. I did ok against cavalcade decks because Flame Sweep hits everything for 2 which is great. But those Questing Beasts... I had to use two Flame Sweep and then he just played another beast :/ I ended up having to use my Explosion on it but he killed me with a wolf next turn. I like the deck but I can't see it winning much.
This archetype seems to have risen from the dead as an anti-deck for Oko+Nissa. I wouldn't put too much hope on it otherwise, because anything running Teferi + Narset combo really shits hard on this. I haven't really tried it recently, but it left a bad taste in my mouth
because all my matches vs. mono red were a disaster.
If questing beasts specifically are a problem, your only solution in this color pair is to counter it or pack extra Lava Coils. If you can fill the graveyard reasonably well, Bacon Bolt may be worth a shot as a 1-2x.
It's always possible to focus on ramping towards Niv Mizzet, but he seems much less intimidating when he first came out. Being uncounterable isn't as big of a deal as it used to.
If you have any, be sure to try some Electrodominance in this shell, I remember it was super fun putting shit to play on instant speed, THEN untapping like nothing happened.
No Drawn from Dreams is really screwing me too. If I get 4 of those and a few more Bolas... this deck will be uber. I found a netdeck that is similar which helped me make some tweaks but it still doesn't do too well. It seems good but it also seems like you need a bit of luck to get discard and counters before oko/nissa. I also just played against an oko/nissa deck who had Bolas Citadel so even when I countered him, he just cast another one with his life.
https://decks.tcgplayer.com/magic/standard/chris-lamell/grixis-control/1362796
Did you try Chemister's Insight / Tamiyo's Epiphany as a sub? Don't obsess too much about DfD, I actually consider it a very poor card and its only saving grave is avoiding Narset.
It is only good if you can play it for free, or discount it with a God-Eternal. Sure it digs deep, but sorcery speed for basically two cards is the very definition of meh.
I think would feel physical pain if I were to craft it card after card, so I was quite happy to get a full set by drafting.
I will tell you straight off the bat, that deck is a horrible pile. No boardwipes (any thing that can go wide will fuck you good, also anything aggro, because you rely on 12 fucking shicklands without packing Enter the God Eternals which is one of the few decent lifegain options for UBR).
The win conditions are slow as hell. And I firmly believe that you should start removing Duresses before you go down to 3x Erasure in Bo3.
Don't even get me started about running all the shitty three mana milling counterspells. You're not winning with mill here, so I guess it's there to enable two copies of Drown in the Loch. Sure. Sounds like a plan. At least put 1-2x Into the story to pretend you're going for synergy.
Final nail to the coffin is 25 lands with no library digging at 1-2 mana. You shouldn't really go below 26 in a deck that doesn't really want to miss any of the first five land drops.
I mean, if you can get results with it, I will be genuinely impressed, though Bolo might be awesome enough to carry it from time to time.
If you want a dedicated discard deck (every guy needs a little bit of this in their life), three mana counterspells are a no-go (one or two is fine, but ffs, not seven), because you can't discard and keep counter backup until turn five.
You actually want to rely on the conditional two mana stuff - Negate, Disdainful Stroke, Drown in the Loch. This means starting from turn four, you get into a comfortable position in which
you pick the composition of the opponent's hand depending on the counterspell you have.
Also, recognize you will have a bad time vs. aggro decks, because they're used to play the game in topdeck mode and they might actually be happy when you lose all that tempo on trying to disrupt them.
Finally, when going discard, you want shit that doesn't take forever to kill a guy, because the advantage you get from successfully disrupting a guy will go away eventually. Doom Whisperers come to mind, Kefnet is also a natural fit
with many synergies.