Well, I see how this would apply to the "It's a wise man..." line, it's obvious that he is talking in
general, that was in fact the reason why I didn't report his opening lines,:
"Nothing, nothing. It's only that a man might be talking to Mr. Willoughsby and then Mr. Willoughsby might tell you something, and the next thing you know, you're involved in something you don't completely understand. Do you know what I'm talking about, madam?"
(although he does refer to "that man" as "you"...I'm confused
)
But the bit after you agree that you will listen to his proposition:
"[He smiles.]You see? Two men, strangers really, can have a logical, rational conversation, and the next thing you know, things are being done. Good things mind you, necessary things. Things that made this city great..."
It's pretty clear that he is speaking
specifically of the conversation you are having with him, him as one man, you as the other. When he is addressing
you specifically,not just people/men in general, but the female PC, as a man, it should be changed.