I'm so happy to hear the truth finally spoken that the essence of Baldur's Gate is that you can autoplay turns.
Why have manual turns when you can have them play out automatically and watch the boom booms? Don't waste my zoomer time.
Functionally there isn't that much of a difference between TB and RTwP. In the latter you simply get to decide how long the "turn" lasts before pausing, and PCs, NPCs and enemies act in turns based on weapon speed, APR or cast times.
I'll never get hating on classics like BG 2 or other IE games just because they're RTwP. Pathfinder is the greatest CRPG since, well, the IE games. Is someone really going to argue that D:OS style games are better just because they're TB?