La vie sexuelle
Learned
What, you one of those Occitains or something?I'm from a different culture than Anglosaxon.
Oc!
Dirty-ass horndog frenchman.
Yes!
You sound like a German.
Cute. But no cigar, from a latin culture.
Argentina or Brazil.
Although with that German jacket and the "Latin" trick, you could also be Belgian.
Old Shopenhauer would say that raw instinct is a metaphysical matter, the blind Will that move the World. Julius Evola also would disagree with you https://www.edizionimediterranee.net/libri/bestsellers/product/metafisica-del-sesso-julius-evola
I beg to differ from both, even as i think one must face old Arthur, but there are many others that would recognize the metaphysical basis of sex. Like Pico della Mirandola said, in the human there is the possibility to descend lower than beast, or higher than angels. This goes also for love and sex.
I am light, so is my being. Arthur doesn't appeal to me, nor does his concept of will. I prefer to define existence as Sarte did, as a subjective setting, close to daesin. So sex would only be an instinct or activity, but my existence is a unity in which sexual elements are found and valued. Hence the vision of transgression as a "rupture" of being, subjective being, in its current form. And further, shame is the fear of disruption of one's existence. But like everything in our lives, these things are related to society (which I do not demonize like Sartre). We have a cultural obligation to feel ashamed so as not to destroy the social vision of existence.
I think that everything in life is transgressive because it forces us to break the internal homeostasis we strive for and protect ourselves. Conscious transgression is control over one's own being, which is why extremes have something destructive about them - I want to create myself to create myself (and that's why people in BDSM clubs are so pretentious :D).Also, transgression could be a good thing if it helps avoid staleness. But it still needs a border, even if a dynamic, dialectic one.