Take shit out of context, much?
Did you know Sim Copter had FAGGOT Npc's?
No, you probably didn't know that because it was an easter egg snuck in as a joke that most players wouldn't even know about. The devs probably put it in because it was offensive, if anything. Or it was just funny to do it. You cannot compare that to Larian who make faggotry a main feature in all their trailers and previews.
One of them is catering and pandering to the wrong crowd because it's trendy to market their game that way, and the other one isn't.