DA:O is unintentionally based, anti-woke, because it's literally the best representation of what homosexuality really is in all of video games.
Portrays depravity and hedonism with the consequences of such a lifestyle. There's no lecturing about gays or forcing you into anything. But it's also not just a gay person for *muh representation*, i.e. trying to normalize it. It's a comment on how society & actions shape a persons mind.
The only other place you see anything that can relate to homosexuality is in the brothel where you can choose gay prostitutes if you want & "get surprised" by a Dwarven crossdresser. Again, a great representation of the depravity and inevitable decline of the inner core of a large city (in this case Denerim) when people who push this stuff aren't strictly controlled.