I just don't get the "you should play the way that the devs intented" mindset.
And I don't get the mindset "I am using the game I bought (or stole) as the draft of the game I really want to play". Play the game that suits your requirements; there are so many of them.
Yeah, there are so many semi-faithful turn-based 3.x videogames out there. It's unreal, you can't move one step without stumbling upon one. There's The Temple of Elemental Evil, Knights of the Chalice 2, and... Dungeons & Dragons Tactics for the PSP. Definitely enough for an entire lifetime! Oh, wait: there's also the magnificent Pool of Radiance: Ruins of Myth Drannor! Really a cornucopia of possibilities!
But you're right, people should just play these four games forever without ever trying anything new, because it's actually illegal to enjoy videogames.
You really are one odd individual, Lann. Why do you hate people having fun so much?