Yes very boring and dumb. The cannon fodder pawns go in to tank and get smashed around while you do the 1 huge spell the destroy everything. Or a few smaller spells that destroy everything in a slightly less awesome-button way. All in a game with bad ui, bad itemisation, bad repeating voice overs, tedious linear world design, etc. Yeah it's maybe better than Skyrim or whatever, there aren't many alternatives, but still the standards are low as hell. You don't have to accept all that.
It makes me sad that you don't like Dragons Dogma or Skyrim.
It makes me sad you would defend them after playing EverQuest. A 23+ year old game made with a tiny budget and a tiny team... Yet multiple starting locations, interesting racial abilities, complex faction system that changes as you play, thousands of unique items, mobs, quests, and a world so big it had a sense of wonder that other games don't even come close to, varied weather, a combat and magic system so complex it had emergent gameplay all over the place that got balanced in real time, pets you can control and equip, dozens of well designed dungeons with traps and puzzles and secrets and unique creatures/loot, hugely varied locations and mob types, etc.
Skyrim is a shallow pile of shit from a megacorporation turned into billionaires by the low standard pleb public. It's not even as good as earlier ES games which themselves are miles off EQ, and this is too. It's unjust, and it sucks for gaming that all the retards in this thread are trying to tell me what's better when they clearly have no fucking clue. You do, you should know better.