Wild to think my 11700k + 3070 will struggle to run this game at 2k. It doesn't even look that good.
Have you ever considered lowering the graphics settings?
If you watched the video changing the settings really doesn't impact much except make things even blurrier and look more like shit.
I watched the first part which showed him getting 80+ FPS on the lower settings. Seems good to go performance wise to me. You can say the graphics are bad, they don't look like top shelf graphics to me based on screenshots and videos. But Bethesda games have never had good graphics and performance. It usually improves with patches, but I have always been able to at least play their games, even close to launch.
Maybe I just don't understand why people get so hung up and bothered by graphics, since I have never really been a graphics person. I appreciate when games look better. But it isn't a deal breaker if they don't look great, and I couldn't even tell you what graphics card I have without looking it up in my system settings.
So any time I have had performance issues I have always just gone in and dropped down the graphics settings to a level needed for the frame rates to be decent (I can usually be satisifed with about 40+) without batting an eye or even thinking much about it.