Tbh all this scandal about the bear scene happened because we are in 2023 and people cannot laugh anymore games had wicked shit long before bg3
Remember Vendetta?
I do kinda agree with this and someone else was making a similar point previously but I'd like to point out how marketing and game journos have greatly helped in framing this toxic mindset, it's too easy to blame it on gamers being political when it sure af ain't gamers who made this environment so politically charged to begin with.
For vendetta, the devs didn't showcase this doggo/homo dry humping to a room full of journos who cheered and clapped with tears in their eyes going "bravo maestro! bravo!".
Journos of that time didn't turn around and then go on about how problematic Blaze's outfit was in Streets of rage (have to use another game as an example here because pretty sure vendetta had no female characters i can use for my metaphor).
This is the difference. This ain't a haha joke or something spicy hidden for gamers to discover on their own if they really look for it but something proudly advertised to cheering journos who then write glowing articles about this.
It's the double standards, when it feels like wanting aesthetically pleasing characters is some moral crime and something shameful, then YES BEAR SEX!!! YESSS! THIS IS WHAT RPGS NEED! followed by articles praising a twink x bear ship.
As an aside, for the sake of historical accuracy, Vendetta did actually get censored in some countries including the us for the content you linked, homos and doggos both got removed or had animations altered, but that doesn't undermine your general argument, no shortage of spicy examples from older games you can use instead.