Got a new computer so giving bg3 another run, jfc what a difference going from low/medium to ultra makes as well as having things load fast.
Anyways, couple of random things i'll rant about for the benefit of the peanut gallery:
-Dark urge origin is a must for custom pcs. It really should be the default and whilst they don't do enough with it for my liking (or maybe i haven't been resting enough to see all the related scenes), playing a bhaal spawn or w/e slots in the plot perfectly and starts building up the baddie trio far more effectively. Not to mention makes bg3 feel more of a true bg1-2 sequel and makes the pc enough of a snowflake where it helps justify him being the big boss whereas before i was just a random schmuck with a tadpole who was somehow in charge of a bunch of characters all more interesting then him.
-Everyone who has ever gaslighted me on Halsin and the offering drink at party=wanting gay sex debate can kindly go fellate themselves. This time around i ignored Halsin at the party completely and when later on i talked to the guy to start getting the shadow quest resolved the "i hope i didn't come off as too strong at the party" option appeared regardless. So turns out offering a drink or not doesn't matter, the Bear D wants you even if you ghost him.
And when i talked to him again later because he was bugging a bit at the last inn made the mistake of asking him "how are you enjoying it at camp?" and it turned really really gay and awkward with no way to abort so reloaded just to avoid triggering that dialogue flag in case it matters later on. I still expect him to hit on me in act 3 but at least this time i can honestly say i went out of my way to ignore him yet it still does nothing so it will put to rest once and for all how relentlessly gay the male pcs in this game are and no it's not the fault of people being social retards.
I am also starting to seriously loathe Halsin and how unless you are going for a haha evil route he is all but forced on you, at least wyll and astarion can be refused (although imo Astarion is one of the most fun characters to keep and his campiness is made clear from the start+i might be the only one on the codex who actually likes Wyll when he isn't prancing around, he is literally Irene from troubleshooter). If there was an option to refuse his company i completely missed it, which brings me to...
-Gale. Ignored the weird portal completely this time around (which is what i did in my og playthrough until i learned i had missed companions and went back to pick them up, should have stuck with that in retrospect) and my run is already 10 X better. You don't even really need a mage in bg3 imo especially when there are a fair few subclasses offering magic in their kits anyway.
-Either i got gud or the devs nerfed difficulty. Feels like i'm breezing through most fights with a handful of exceptions.
-I still really hate the ui. Got a bunch of mods to help address this but honestly it all still feels bad and managing gear is still one of the most annoying things to do in this game when it's usually one of the things in an rpg i enjoy the most.